"Just like fire, burning out the way"

 Hello there, I know its been a long time but I am new to this whole blogging thingy. So shall we complete what we began in November 2020?

Life in negatives? I know that title didn't really do justice to my readers.

"Everyone have some troubles in their lives. But when you worry, you make it double. Always look on the bright side. Everyone is beautiful because outer beauty fades with time but inner beauty never fades. It is inner beauty which represents our personality. Don't stop believing, hold on to the feeling"-These quotes only find their best place in some website hyping "the top 10 motivational quotes to inspire you to appreciate the beauty of the world"

So here comes the culprit-BEAUTY

What is beauty? What is it about people being called or "judged" as beautiful or handsome?

"the socially constructed notion that physical attractiveness is one of women's most important assets, and something all women should strive to achieve and maintain"

When we talk about beauty we often think of a typical 36-24-36 body, long legs, skinny face with big eyes, perfect skin... but do you know what? People have flaws and it's normal. You shouldn't blame yourself for acne, the gap between your teeth, freckles on your face or your shoulders or any other features that make you special. Can you catch the thought? Not worse.

Dark skinned! Blemished and pimple scarred face! Too skinny! Too tall! Too short! Too fat!....and this list continues.

Why can't people realize that these comments on every aspect of anyone's life has a huge negative affect on their life? So much so that people stop loving themselves.

I have always been judged for my appearance and my personality which eventually lead me to unloving myself. I have hated my whole existence from a long time now. Can this be a reason why I would tell that MY LIFE IS NEGATIVE? why not right? But this is not the only reason I must admit.

I feel like I'm at rock bottom but keep sinking. I've tried to be positive about my situation and give others advice, but it feels like I was just trying to convince myself. Honestly writing down my thoughts and feelings have helped me a lot. My body type is not perfect or something even close to that meaning as well. I've spent many years blaming myself but I have what I have and I can do nothing. It doesn't mean that I should change my wardrobe to everything really long and hiding my shapes. I can but I don't want to.

I am not good at giving advices but I seriously feel it's high time people should realize that judging and comparing someone only on the basis of their physical appearance is not fair at all. Sometimes I question God why did He have to make everyone different? Why is this social differentiation in race, religion, colour, caste, creed, language or borders. 

In this era of colorism or shadeism or popularly known as discrimination based on skin color, it's just one of the prejudice. 

You can't help being not good enough for yourself when you're trying to be better for someone. If they don't love you the way you look now, they don't deserve you anyway. You shouldn't change anything to be cool. People won't appreciate that. They would ask for more and more till you'd lose yourself. 

How can you say that you're not beautiful when you haven't seen yourself while concentrating, being extremely tired or fascinated? Just try to feel the way that is comfortable for you. Find your style and do whatever makes you happy. 

I think the ability of ignorance of negative compliments is the best power that anyone can attain. If we have this ability no one can stop us from being in positive progress of life. Not only this but after developing habit of ignoring them we should develop the ability to share the ideas of ignoring with others.

My inability of ignorance of negative thoughts is my worst enemy.

But you just have to remind yourself that everyone is amazing. Stay strong, love yourself and be grateful for being alive💗

Happy reading,

Yours Sunflower🌻